Applying is free. You only pay if you’re in.

A six-digit code. Your number is how you sign in, and it's the first of two things that prove you're a real person.

Name, age, who you're looking for, your neighbourhood, three to six photos, and three prompts. Ten minutes, honestly answered.

Your selfie is used only to verify you're you. Review-team eyes only, never shown to members, deleted on request.

Someone on our review team reads every application. You'll hear back within five days either way.

If you're admitted you have 72 hours to buy your pass. That deadline is real — after it, the seat goes to the waitlist.